Aren't my titles just earth shattering unique?
This year I have been so determined to live in a budget minded state. I love the concept of having 25 accounts each labeled for specifically what the money will be used for.
Here let me give you an example:
Christmas
Annual expenses i.e.) taxes, life insurance policies, vehicle registrations etc
family vacations
get the picture?
Now, when it comes to money Corby and I rarely don't see eye to eye (we make up for that in plenty of other areas) but with the multiple accounts he has bucked me, Hard core! He doesn't see the point but if momma gets an idea its best to get out of the way and let momma have the final say ha ha
This last year we found a happy middle ground. We combined several accounts and figured the amount each account needed to be funded properly and it worked.
For Christmas, we budgeted $2000. I know I know that sounds like a lot I know but when I say Christmas I mean Christmas. We spend a lot on plays and activities and creating memories plus we eat out a lot more during the holiday season. We were able to buy everything on the girls wish lists and provide Christmas for two families this year. It was amazing and the best part knowing the money was there calling to be spent. Best Christmas ever. Next year we will up our amount to $2400 since our family is growing and the price of play are jacked up high.
The girls got out of school only a few days before Christmas which allowed me to finalize shopping and wrapping. Would you believe me if I told you I had everything done minus Christmas fondue an entire week before the big day. It was amazing and I highly recommend all those procrastinators to jump on my wagon. So nice to just relax and enjoy the family. We spent many a night playing games and watching movies and enjoying treats and just being together.
This year I implemented a new tradition and I loved it. It is a keeper for sure. It is called The Giving Manger. You get a manger, separate strands of straw, and a baby Jesus. Everyday throughout the month of December you do anonymous acts of service. When a kind deed has been completed you place a piece of straw under sweet baby Jesus. By the end of the month Jesus has a comfy warm bed made by service. AWE, I know.
Every Sunday, during FHE, we each would share some of the kind acts of service we rendered during the week. It was awesome and I hope we continue each year to bring the real reason for the season to light.
I mentioned we attended a few plays. We went to Forgotten Carols by Michael McClean and Juanito Bandito by Pickleville Playhouse in Bear Lake. Hands down Juanito Bandito will be revisited each year. So funny and great for all ages. It is a bit tricky to find activities where the age gap in children doesn't come into play
We went ice skating downtown at the Gallivan Center. We drove through Christmas in Color, this my friends, was pretty awesome. You drive around and see over a million lights synchronized to music. It is so wonderful. We are headed to the Hardware Ranch in Logan to ride in a wagon and spot Elk. How this tradition works is this, each family member gets to pick an activity and in the end we have 6 different nights full of memories. The weather has been so amazing but has put a cramp in our sledding wishes. Maybe January will bring the white stuff.
We were in charge of Corby's Christmas family gathering. I opted to make it easy on everyone and provide the meal. We served breakfast burritos, yogurt, berries, homemade granola and Einstein bagels with flavored cream cheese. I went over board on the food because usually at Hansen gatherings we run out and it always stresses me out. Nothing worse then people not getting full. But fear not I was a prepared Girl Scout and the only item we ran short on was salsa(of all things ha ha). Everyone but Nathan, Jaren, HyLee and his family and Janalee and her family were in attendance. We played a few games I found on Pinterest and we had every family share their "Christmas Card" highlights. Some family members bauked so they didn't participate but hey their loss. I find it fulfilling to celebrate with others as they share their accomplishments and highlights of their family. We had our stake center until 1:30pm and then most headed home. Ron and VaLynn and boys spent the remainder of the day with us. We really enjoy hanging out with them. It is fun and refreshing and we bounce ideas off each other and it's just a good time. Because making breakfast burritos for over 40 people didn't seem like enough, I also opted to feed the missionaries that evening. Bria insisted we eat Hawaiian Haystacks so I obliged her request. We had a house full all day with friends coming and going and I couldn't be happier. I hope to always have a home where others feel welcome. I do have one small request of those who feel welcome and that is watch your children. I know you want a break but trust me I want a house standing when you leave. So its a bit tricky with some family members but for the most part people respect my boundary and those who don't often don't get an invite. Winning all around
We enjoyed our traditional fondue dinner on Christmas Eve. It was smaller than usual with Sierra on her mission. James, Teesh's friend, joined us and then it was just us, the 6 of us. Fondue is so fun and holds such fond memories of my childhood. It is kind of a long meal but its a great way to slow down and enjoy Christmas Eve. As I stated earlier, I was Johnny-on-the-spot so the girls went to bed, I filled the stockings and Corby used his creative juices and wrote clues for the morning traditional scavenger hunt. The girls love this part the most of all Christmas morning. I made the Christmas Quiche and put it in the oven to cook and be ready at the perfect time after gifts were opened. I have to pat myself on the back and say I have this Christmas morning gig down! ha ha
Christmas Day is the most low key day ever. We literally don't get dressed and we just stay inside and its wonderful. A few friends came by but we mostly were a family and I loved it. The best best best part of Christmas Day came at 11:30........Skyping with my durla, Sierra. Oh to see her smiling face and hear her voice, I was a puddle of contentment for that glorious 40 minutes. She shared her testimony in Spanish and even struggled to speak English. She is 100% submerged in her mission. She is so happy and so alive. She is living her life exactly as she wishes and that's all I ask of my girls. Follow your heart's desire little ones and I will be your biggest cheerleader all the way.
Corby spent some time hunting(shooting targets) with Teeth and Saxton up North. He has an elk tag he desperately wants to fill but with the weather being crazy like it is the Elk don't feel the need to come down for food. Pray for the white stuff!
Teesh was more than generous with her gifts this year. She spoiled each of us. She got Corby a case and ammo for his new pistol and she got me an Alexia and catch kitchen knife. If you don't have cutco knife set you are missing out. They are amazing! So thoughtful Teesh. She has a real talent for listening and hearing needs and then pulling them out at just the right time. Just a sweetheart that Teesh is.x
My girls each draw names so they give a gift to one sister. We kept the limit at $20 because let's face it you can't get much for less. Ada had Bria, she got her a game called Dog Pile. Bria had Malia, she got her a thread wallet and favorite candy bar, Malia had Teesh, she got her a leather band for her new Apple Watch, and Teesh had Ada, she got her several outfits for Ada's reborn doll Ryan. The best part was Bria and Ada both earned their $20 by taking care of a neighbor's cat over Thanksgiving break. Winning!
After Christmas, my side had our gathering. My brother, Chad, was in charge and held it down in Pleasant Grove. It was also a breakfast gathering. We each were asked to bring a breakfast casserole and fruit. It was low key and nice. Most of my family was there. We have 7 missionaries out right now so minus them we had a great support that morning. We played a few games then took pictures and my family headed out. Teesh had an eye appointment and I had a class to attend. Corby was so good go with me and endure the torture while I continue to learn the world of fitness. I love learning about fitness and nutrition. Teesh was kind enough to keep our nuggets while Corby and I went from class to class for hours on end. Just a slice of heaven for me.
Well, I have been long winded long enough. It is safe to say Christmas will go down in the books as a classic. It's hard to have Sierra gone and our family not complete but we get it. 18 months is a short time to sacrifice for our Lord and Savior. May the Lord bless you and all is well at your home during this special time of year.
Merry Christmas and to all a good night!
Monday, December 25, 2017
Wednesday, November 1, 2017
That time of year......
I love the Fall. Its a full season for us in our household but I love it. That chill in the air. The orange, red, and yellow colors everywhere. The decor is my all time favorite and the smells, oh the smells of pumpkin spice, sign me up!
Something else I love about this time of year is canning. I love canning. Growing my own food is just the ultimate in satisfaction for me. Canning is time consuming. Canning doesn't necessarily save you money but what it does provide is the knowledge you know where your food came from. All the chemicals and preservatives in food now is so damaging. I can my own spaghetti sauce, apple sauce, apple pie filling, green beans, and other random items. I freeze peaches from my tree. Nothing is better than the pop pop coming from the bottles as they seal. Crazy, I know and its the little things but I love it.
I typically will do laundry on days I am canning. Some steps of canning all it requires is stirring every half hour. Oh, how my house smells when I am simmering spaghetti sauce for hours, yummy!
I also had my visiting teachers come over so multi tasking for the win. I also soak in magnesium while my visiting teachers visit. I soak my feet silly not my whole body ha ha
Its the simplest things these days that provide me the greatest satisfaction. I opted in on a challenge to only spend $25 or less each week on groceries for the month of September and to feed my family from my pantry and freezer or fridge for the month of September. Oh this is right up my alley, I love this kind of stuff so so much it might be an unhealthy relationship but I jumped in with both feet, oh heck my whole body. The idea is to spend less so you can use the extra you save and put it on bills to help you get out of debt. Well, I don't have debt and I am comfortable with our savings but I was all about the challenge to feed my family healthy with items I have on hand. What ignites me with this process is knowing I am storing the items my family will use in an emergency situation. Do you want to know what makes me the happiest??? Do you really want to know? OK I will tell you. Preparing my menu for the week and only having to purchase one or two items to make those meals happen. Now, I am a very health conscious eater. Fresh and frozen vegetables and fruits and not processed foods are my staple. We eat very little dairy and eat mostly from scratch. Like scratch in, I make my own enchilada sauce and worchestershire sauce scratch. People say they don't have the time but I say you make the time or you'll spend the time on doctor bills and appointments. I feel a soap box coming on so I will stop now. When I get into my new house I will have the kitchen of my dreams. I plan to teach cooking classes and teach people how it isn't that much time and the benefits will out weigh any sacrifice you may make in the beginning. Watch for the announcement coming August or September of 2018.
Anyway, happy to report I was able to keep to the $25 a week goal and I literally did not change how I cooked for my family. I was able to get a good amount of food out of my freezer and utilize it before it was too old. Its the simple things that get to me I am telling you.
Take the challenge. Take a month and feed your family with what you have and get a snapshot if you would be ok if a natural disaster occurred and shopping couldn't happen. Helps you sleep deep and comfortable knowing your needs are met. Try me I dare ya......
Something else I love about this time of year is canning. I love canning. Growing my own food is just the ultimate in satisfaction for me. Canning is time consuming. Canning doesn't necessarily save you money but what it does provide is the knowledge you know where your food came from. All the chemicals and preservatives in food now is so damaging. I can my own spaghetti sauce, apple sauce, apple pie filling, green beans, and other random items. I freeze peaches from my tree. Nothing is better than the pop pop coming from the bottles as they seal. Crazy, I know and its the little things but I love it.
I typically will do laundry on days I am canning. Some steps of canning all it requires is stirring every half hour. Oh, how my house smells when I am simmering spaghetti sauce for hours, yummy!
I also had my visiting teachers come over so multi tasking for the win. I also soak in magnesium while my visiting teachers visit. I soak my feet silly not my whole body ha ha
Its the simplest things these days that provide me the greatest satisfaction. I opted in on a challenge to only spend $25 or less each week on groceries for the month of September and to feed my family from my pantry and freezer or fridge for the month of September. Oh this is right up my alley, I love this kind of stuff so so much it might be an unhealthy relationship but I jumped in with both feet, oh heck my whole body. The idea is to spend less so you can use the extra you save and put it on bills to help you get out of debt. Well, I don't have debt and I am comfortable with our savings but I was all about the challenge to feed my family healthy with items I have on hand. What ignites me with this process is knowing I am storing the items my family will use in an emergency situation. Do you want to know what makes me the happiest??? Do you really want to know? OK I will tell you. Preparing my menu for the week and only having to purchase one or two items to make those meals happen. Now, I am a very health conscious eater. Fresh and frozen vegetables and fruits and not processed foods are my staple. We eat very little dairy and eat mostly from scratch. Like scratch in, I make my own enchilada sauce and worchestershire sauce scratch. People say they don't have the time but I say you make the time or you'll spend the time on doctor bills and appointments. I feel a soap box coming on so I will stop now. When I get into my new house I will have the kitchen of my dreams. I plan to teach cooking classes and teach people how it isn't that much time and the benefits will out weigh any sacrifice you may make in the beginning. Watch for the announcement coming August or September of 2018.
Anyway, happy to report I was able to keep to the $25 a week goal and I literally did not change how I cooked for my family. I was able to get a good amount of food out of my freezer and utilize it before it was too old. Its the simple things that get to me I am telling you.
Take the challenge. Take a month and feed your family with what you have and get a snapshot if you would be ok if a natural disaster occurred and shopping couldn't happen. Helps you sleep deep and comfortable knowing your needs are met. Try me I dare ya......
Friday, October 6, 2017
Thoughts Emotions
I have so many thoughts all the time swarming my head. Some are productive but most honestly are just damaging to my spirit. I have really never talked about this part of me but for the sake of my posterity I feel it should be documented. I would never want my girls to grow up thinking I never had a bad day or allowed my emotions to get the best of me. Trust me, more now than ever, I let my emotions get the best of me. I cover them well but they are oh so present. I will be vulnerable but that's how I work, I don't pretend and I don't cover up. I am a straight shooter and I am often criticized for it. It's always been an interesting fact, with some people who tend to be more sensitive, that I am expected to change because I make them feel uncomfortable. I bought into this crap for most of my life but about 2 years ago, I realized I am not wrong for being who I am. Now does this give me the right to bulldoze over others and be inconsiderate of their feelings or opinions, absolutely not, but it does give me permission to be me. I am not responsible for how others feel. If you feel uncomfortable or hurt it's your issue not mine. I can't make you feel anything you are responsible for your feelings. Does that make sense? Now I am not saying we aren't to be kind and considerate and if we are around those who tend to be more sensitive that we aren't conscious of our words and actions but in the end if you walk away from a situation and try to blame someone else for how you feel, sorry that's incorrect thinking. So freeing to my soul when I came to this realization. I am often blamed for how people feel. I am not responsible for your feelings I am responsible for mine!!
My calling, Young Women's President, has provided many opportunities lately of this coming into play. What a world we could all live in when blame stops and personal reflection begins. Do you know that when blame is present it is actually a signal that you feel out of control? Fascinating isn't it.
Anyway, I have really been doing a lot of introspection and learning about myself. I have to be honest and say I don't really like myself much. I have agreed to things I don't want to do pretty much my whole life. I live in the land of obligation. I do what I think I am expected to do rarely do something because I want to. I don't even know what I like anymore. I use to work my guts out daily all for nothing. Sure I have a healthy heart, but what I was after was a rock solid body similar to a fitness model with sculpted muscles and complete definition. I haven't achieved it yet. My body is a endomorph and that my friend is the hardest body type to manage. It's not impossible, but you have very little room for "falling off the band wagon" if you will. I am learning to be grateful for the body I have that carried 10 precious babies and allowed me to raise 5 of those amazing babies. I am grateful for the fact I am healthy and can do pretty much anything I ask of my body. I am 47 years old and I can hike 19 miles mostly uphill and still walk the next day for Petes sake. So please don't misunderstand I am grateful but what I have been dealing with is not achieving what I have been after my whole life. The fitness body physic. I have also been dealing and struggling with the fact that most people my age and stage of life don't have the same goals as I do. I don't really fit in anywhere. I have an amazing husband and daughters but I want friends. Even just one who gets me. I really thought I had that in a few people but when I needed them they just weren't available and didn't understand what I needed and upon sharing it turned into an awkward convo and to this day it isn't the same. I am lonely, so lonely. I do most of my daily tasks without a single word until Malia comes home from school or I pick the girls. Now, don't get me wrong I love my life for the most part just wish I had a friend. I have friends just not one specific friend who gets me.
I work out alone and because of that it has brought up intense sadness. I am social and I like partners. I really want to find someone who will workout with me again. I had a good gig for years with my friend Misty, dependable, she pushed me, she was real with me, she was amazing for the most part. Is that asking too much to find a replacement of Misty? I dont think so. So where does one find a partner? I have "interviewed" many but in the end no one has the drive I need or desire. I am thinking a personal trainer is my best bet but who's got that kind of money to shell out. Those are pricey but worth it!
Next thought, have you ever heard...."advice not asked for will always come across as criticism" Isn't that powerful and sound information to apply in your life? I am so guilty of sharing advice when it wasn't asked for and I honestly thought I was helping but I know it was taken as criticism now and it makes perfect sense to me why some friends don't reach out anymore. Recently I was contacted by a family member and was given advice that I did not ask for and this is exactly how I feel, criticized. Parenting adult children is tricky business. We share and teach and help our children all their lives and then one day its no longer acceptable to share and we have to find a new normal with adult children. I am grateful I get to learn this lesson on the first child and not on number 5. I have damage repair in motion right now and it sucks. I hope one day things will be resolved but for now it sucks and I ask for prayers. I do hope my children understand and honestly anyone who ever felt criticized by me because of advice shared that I never meant ill intent. I genuinely want to help others and when I see others doing things I have personal experience with I tend to be quick out of the gate to share. I am changing this aspect and do hope my change will be noticed and appreciated and past ways will be forgiven.
Just a few of my thoughts and emotions that I wanted out of my head and down on paper for my girls. I hope my legacy is full of I learned new things, recognized old patterns that didn't serve me, and I applied new thinking. I love deep and I value friendships..
My calling, Young Women's President, has provided many opportunities lately of this coming into play. What a world we could all live in when blame stops and personal reflection begins. Do you know that when blame is present it is actually a signal that you feel out of control? Fascinating isn't it.
Anyway, I have really been doing a lot of introspection and learning about myself. I have to be honest and say I don't really like myself much. I have agreed to things I don't want to do pretty much my whole life. I live in the land of obligation. I do what I think I am expected to do rarely do something because I want to. I don't even know what I like anymore. I use to work my guts out daily all for nothing. Sure I have a healthy heart, but what I was after was a rock solid body similar to a fitness model with sculpted muscles and complete definition. I haven't achieved it yet. My body is a endomorph and that my friend is the hardest body type to manage. It's not impossible, but you have very little room for "falling off the band wagon" if you will. I am learning to be grateful for the body I have that carried 10 precious babies and allowed me to raise 5 of those amazing babies. I am grateful for the fact I am healthy and can do pretty much anything I ask of my body. I am 47 years old and I can hike 19 miles mostly uphill and still walk the next day for Petes sake. So please don't misunderstand I am grateful but what I have been dealing with is not achieving what I have been after my whole life. The fitness body physic. I have also been dealing and struggling with the fact that most people my age and stage of life don't have the same goals as I do. I don't really fit in anywhere. I have an amazing husband and daughters but I want friends. Even just one who gets me. I really thought I had that in a few people but when I needed them they just weren't available and didn't understand what I needed and upon sharing it turned into an awkward convo and to this day it isn't the same. I am lonely, so lonely. I do most of my daily tasks without a single word until Malia comes home from school or I pick the girls. Now, don't get me wrong I love my life for the most part just wish I had a friend. I have friends just not one specific friend who gets me.
I work out alone and because of that it has brought up intense sadness. I am social and I like partners. I really want to find someone who will workout with me again. I had a good gig for years with my friend Misty, dependable, she pushed me, she was real with me, she was amazing for the most part. Is that asking too much to find a replacement of Misty? I dont think so. So where does one find a partner? I have "interviewed" many but in the end no one has the drive I need or desire. I am thinking a personal trainer is my best bet but who's got that kind of money to shell out. Those are pricey but worth it!
Next thought, have you ever heard...."advice not asked for will always come across as criticism" Isn't that powerful and sound information to apply in your life? I am so guilty of sharing advice when it wasn't asked for and I honestly thought I was helping but I know it was taken as criticism now and it makes perfect sense to me why some friends don't reach out anymore. Recently I was contacted by a family member and was given advice that I did not ask for and this is exactly how I feel, criticized. Parenting adult children is tricky business. We share and teach and help our children all their lives and then one day its no longer acceptable to share and we have to find a new normal with adult children. I am grateful I get to learn this lesson on the first child and not on number 5. I have damage repair in motion right now and it sucks. I hope one day things will be resolved but for now it sucks and I ask for prayers. I do hope my children understand and honestly anyone who ever felt criticized by me because of advice shared that I never meant ill intent. I genuinely want to help others and when I see others doing things I have personal experience with I tend to be quick out of the gate to share. I am changing this aspect and do hope my change will be noticed and appreciated and past ways will be forgiven.
Just a few of my thoughts and emotions that I wanted out of my head and down on paper for my girls. I hope my legacy is full of I learned new things, recognized old patterns that didn't serve me, and I applied new thinking. I love deep and I value friendships..
Monday, September 25, 2017
Survival of the Fittest
Got my mighty hunters off and my littles to school and now its time to catch up on my life through words. Teesh, Corby, and Nathan all spent the entire week(ok Tuesday through Saturday) up in the chilly mountains. They saw lots of buck and deer but did not get a clean shot so came home with empty hands but full heads of memories. They all said they thoroughly enjoyed their time together.
Back at the home front, I was busy getting girls to different destinations like piano lessons, art class, gymnastics, young women's activity, canning applesauce, you know the drill, plus lets add Parent Teacher Conferences in this week just to be extra creative. Elementary PTC is a breeze. One teacher, scheduled appointment of 10 minutes.....BOOM done see ya in 4 more months. I always treat my girls to a new book from the book fair for working so hard. High school PTC is a rather different animal. No appointments, 8 teachers, all in different sections of a multi building high school translates to 2.5 hours of PTC. Thank goodness my piano teacher was ok with the girls staying a few extra hours doing their homework. I tell ya how do single moms do it. I do it a week here a week there and I say no thanks! Corby often asks me why I go when the girls are in high school, my response because I love hearing how my girls are excelling regardless their age, plus its a huge bonus to have my sweet, darlin, Malia next to me hearing how dang great she is. Now, we all know she is great, but who ever gets tired of a compliment??? Pretty much here's the run down, "Malia Hansen, oh yes, she has an A. She has 102% in the class. She participates and is well versed. She adds so much to our class"......go to next teacher....repeat.
Malia is my sunshine girl. Love her dearly. Thursday morning she took off super early for Cedar City to the Shakespeare Festival for the weekend. Malia has been practicing and helped choreograph her trio she will perform there(because I am writing this after the fact, I will gives you a heads up her trio took 1st place) Celebration is coming so stay tuned.
Clark, Hollie's husband, was leaving Friday to take his son Gage to find our mighty hunters. So Corby thought it would be a great idea if I took the littles down and then Clark could bring them to him. It was a win win all around. The littles got a small taste of hunting and I would get an evening to myself. With Clark and Gage gone and Bria,Ada and Malia gone, we decided we would have a sister outing that Friday evening. Watch out the crazy might come out of two housewives ha ha.
We wanted to see a movie but this time of year it's all horror stuff and that's not my love language so dinner worked and we then chilled at her house for our 4am wake up alarm.
We thought it would be fun to hike in the beautiful mountains near Hollie's house. We got on the mountain around 5:30(Hollie has a group of friends, they do crazy adventurous things weekly) well, I'm in the worse shape of my life and I let them all know I would be the trailer of the group so for sure to leave me and send food in a week. They laughed and said no problem but seriously it was so steep and their pace was similar to someone getting out of a burning building so Hollie and I were quickly on our own, but honestly I was ok with that since I didn't know the other ladies other than their names. These ladies are serious hikers, head lamps, hiking sticks, just super Johnny on the spot hikers.
Well, I did not do any pre planning and neither did Hollie and we quickly realized we were a little disoriented and lost ha ha. Our 11.25 mile hike turned out to be almost 19 miles and we were close to 50,000(yes, I did that correctly count those zeros) steps. Holy freaking hip flexors and calves. I was fearful I would not be able to walk but after some stretching and nutrition my body bounced back quickly. But wow, that was intense and we missed the whole Saturday of conference due to our misguided choices. It was fun and we laughed and laughed and peed on the side of the trail a lot and it was so enjoyable. I love Hollie. She is fun and let's me be me. Lucky to have her in my life. I don't have many close friends anymore so I am super grateful for Hollie. We had many conversations about parenting and how life can be hard. I shared with her lots of my mentoring techniques that have helped me and we discussed how taking away hard doesn't allow us to grow and learn. I used the analogy of the chick and the egg and how if you just break the shell thinking you are helping the chick you actually will hurt the chick and it will die. The process that the chick must go thorough to get out is what helps it become strong to be able to survive outside of the shell. Funny that the talk in conference on Sunday actually used that same analogy. Love the spirit.
We had to make a Costco run after we showered and got some food. Hollie wants to give each of her friends a squatty potty for Christmas and Costco had a 2 pack for $19.99. While she was getting her 6 the looks we received from other shoppers was making me smile and laugh the entire shopping trip. I just love not caring what others think and living my life, my style. I ended up purchasing a squatty potty for my family after the rave reviews Hollie gave it. TMI I don't have issues getting my business done but some of my family members do, so we shall give it a whirl.
As I was traveling home, I stopped at Jaren and Cindy's since my home was still vacant. We chatted and enjoyed visiting. I enjoy Jaren the most on the Hansen side. He is so accepting and rarely is there ever the feeling of competition with him. He is a breath of fresh air.
With it being General Conference weekend, that means cinnamon rolls. Malia got home from Cedar City around midnight Saturday evening and mentioned she wanted to learn how to make cinnamon rolls. Your wish is my command little sunshine girl.
We got up a little later than normal but hey give us a break we got to bed well after 1am. Malia invited Jameson over to help and watch conference. It was a delightful morning and those cinnamon rolls turned out more than mighty fine. Probably some of the best batch I've ever made. Malia has the touch. Conference was amazing as usual but I will be honest I didn't get a lot out of it. I am a visual learner so to read it sinks deeper. I had all the feels and was touched many times but reading it after the fact now thats where the true magic happens for me. Plus, being a mom I am constantly being interrupted and solving issues and yay, I can't wait for it to come out on paper. I do love listening to it on LDS.org as well. Love technology.
Jaren and his family came over for games and we played like we haven't in years(ok its only been weeks but it felt way over due) I love hanging out with their family. We have so many traditions and with their kids being similar ages to mine we just get each other and I love it.
Teesh spent the day with James at his condo and then headed to Logan really late. I worry about her driving the canyon that late but she is a good driver and very competent.
It was a jam packed week but we got it all done and everyone is happy, healthy and well fed.
Back at the home front, I was busy getting girls to different destinations like piano lessons, art class, gymnastics, young women's activity, canning applesauce, you know the drill, plus lets add Parent Teacher Conferences in this week just to be extra creative. Elementary PTC is a breeze. One teacher, scheduled appointment of 10 minutes.....BOOM done see ya in 4 more months. I always treat my girls to a new book from the book fair for working so hard. High school PTC is a rather different animal. No appointments, 8 teachers, all in different sections of a multi building high school translates to 2.5 hours of PTC. Thank goodness my piano teacher was ok with the girls staying a few extra hours doing their homework. I tell ya how do single moms do it. I do it a week here a week there and I say no thanks! Corby often asks me why I go when the girls are in high school, my response because I love hearing how my girls are excelling regardless their age, plus its a huge bonus to have my sweet, darlin, Malia next to me hearing how dang great she is. Now, we all know she is great, but who ever gets tired of a compliment??? Pretty much here's the run down, "Malia Hansen, oh yes, she has an A. She has 102% in the class. She participates and is well versed. She adds so much to our class"......go to next teacher....repeat.
Malia is my sunshine girl. Love her dearly. Thursday morning she took off super early for Cedar City to the Shakespeare Festival for the weekend. Malia has been practicing and helped choreograph her trio she will perform there(because I am writing this after the fact, I will gives you a heads up her trio took 1st place) Celebration is coming so stay tuned.
Clark, Hollie's husband, was leaving Friday to take his son Gage to find our mighty hunters. So Corby thought it would be a great idea if I took the littles down and then Clark could bring them to him. It was a win win all around. The littles got a small taste of hunting and I would get an evening to myself. With Clark and Gage gone and Bria,Ada and Malia gone, we decided we would have a sister outing that Friday evening. Watch out the crazy might come out of two housewives ha ha.
We wanted to see a movie but this time of year it's all horror stuff and that's not my love language so dinner worked and we then chilled at her house for our 4am wake up alarm.
We thought it would be fun to hike in the beautiful mountains near Hollie's house. We got on the mountain around 5:30(Hollie has a group of friends, they do crazy adventurous things weekly) well, I'm in the worse shape of my life and I let them all know I would be the trailer of the group so for sure to leave me and send food in a week. They laughed and said no problem but seriously it was so steep and their pace was similar to someone getting out of a burning building so Hollie and I were quickly on our own, but honestly I was ok with that since I didn't know the other ladies other than their names. These ladies are serious hikers, head lamps, hiking sticks, just super Johnny on the spot hikers.
Well, I did not do any pre planning and neither did Hollie and we quickly realized we were a little disoriented and lost ha ha. Our 11.25 mile hike turned out to be almost 19 miles and we were close to 50,000(yes, I did that correctly count those zeros) steps. Holy freaking hip flexors and calves. I was fearful I would not be able to walk but after some stretching and nutrition my body bounced back quickly. But wow, that was intense and we missed the whole Saturday of conference due to our misguided choices. It was fun and we laughed and laughed and peed on the side of the trail a lot and it was so enjoyable. I love Hollie. She is fun and let's me be me. Lucky to have her in my life. I don't have many close friends anymore so I am super grateful for Hollie. We had many conversations about parenting and how life can be hard. I shared with her lots of my mentoring techniques that have helped me and we discussed how taking away hard doesn't allow us to grow and learn. I used the analogy of the chick and the egg and how if you just break the shell thinking you are helping the chick you actually will hurt the chick and it will die. The process that the chick must go thorough to get out is what helps it become strong to be able to survive outside of the shell. Funny that the talk in conference on Sunday actually used that same analogy. Love the spirit.
We had to make a Costco run after we showered and got some food. Hollie wants to give each of her friends a squatty potty for Christmas and Costco had a 2 pack for $19.99. While she was getting her 6 the looks we received from other shoppers was making me smile and laugh the entire shopping trip. I just love not caring what others think and living my life, my style. I ended up purchasing a squatty potty for my family after the rave reviews Hollie gave it. TMI I don't have issues getting my business done but some of my family members do, so we shall give it a whirl.
As I was traveling home, I stopped at Jaren and Cindy's since my home was still vacant. We chatted and enjoyed visiting. I enjoy Jaren the most on the Hansen side. He is so accepting and rarely is there ever the feeling of competition with him. He is a breath of fresh air.
With it being General Conference weekend, that means cinnamon rolls. Malia got home from Cedar City around midnight Saturday evening and mentioned she wanted to learn how to make cinnamon rolls. Your wish is my command little sunshine girl.
We got up a little later than normal but hey give us a break we got to bed well after 1am. Malia invited Jameson over to help and watch conference. It was a delightful morning and those cinnamon rolls turned out more than mighty fine. Probably some of the best batch I've ever made. Malia has the touch. Conference was amazing as usual but I will be honest I didn't get a lot out of it. I am a visual learner so to read it sinks deeper. I had all the feels and was touched many times but reading it after the fact now thats where the true magic happens for me. Plus, being a mom I am constantly being interrupted and solving issues and yay, I can't wait for it to come out on paper. I do love listening to it on LDS.org as well. Love technology.
Jaren and his family came over for games and we played like we haven't in years(ok its only been weeks but it felt way over due) I love hanging out with their family. We have so many traditions and with their kids being similar ages to mine we just get each other and I love it.
Teesh spent the day with James at his condo and then headed to Logan really late. I worry about her driving the canyon that late but she is a good driver and very competent.
It was a jam packed week but we got it all done and everyone is happy, healthy and well fed.
Thursday, September 21, 2017
Day in Day out
Most of my weeks are jam packed and that's just this phase of life. I am loving it and enjoying each day as they come because I know my time is short and I will wish I had more to do ha ha
I get my hair cut and highlighted every 6 and 12 weeks. I go to a lady named Ashley in Lehi. Its a drive I am not gonna lie but she is worth it. She gets me with what I want and she has become a dear friend over the years. She informed she is getting divorced after 14 years of marriage. It is sad but its sadder to see people be mistreated and taken advantage of more. I wish Ashley the best and have no doubts she will find someone to treat her the way she deserves to be treated.
Every other Monday I have class from 10:30-1:30 in South Jordan. Ann Washburn teaches it and wow I love her. She has helped me see things I have struggled with my whole life. She helps me see the issues and also offers suggestions to solve the issues. I am blessed blessed to be surrounded by individuals who are in creation mode and not victim mode. Hurray for goodness!
Ada has gymnastics every Monday and Bria has ballet. It is exciting to see my little girls growing up and developing talents. Ada still keeps telling me she likes dance better so we shall see how long our gymnastics world lasts. She is good, hands down very very good. The teachers after class keep moving her up levels. I don't care how fantastic she is though, balance is key and she is 8. She gets to be a kid and play and enjoy lots of variety and not spend hours upon hours in the studio. When she is older she can go back to competitive dance and I will be her biggest cheerleader.
After class I got the girls settle and then I spent the evening with some girlfriends. We have gotten together for over 18 years every month. Impressive I know! I love this group of ladies. We have endured a lot together and we get each other. One of my friends is going to be a grandma twice here in a few months. Can't wait to cuddle on those sweet bundles of pure joy. I think one of the things I love the most about my group of friends is we are all individuals. We accept each other even though we hold different religious beliefs and other differences.. Its a no judgement zone when we get together and its just down right a breath of fresh air I am not gonna lie. We opt for different fun places to eat at but this go around someone chose Red Robin. The company was good ha ha.
Tuesdays are Bria's art days. She loves her class and is making friends. She talks nonstop about the teacher and I can't get enough of her smile when she comes out of class.
A goal I have had for many years is to attend the temple weekly, ambitious I know, but oh so necessary for my soul. I have an abundance of family names from my mother and sister-in-law Jodi so I feel an urgency and responsibility to provide them with these sacred saving ordinances. I have had many spiritual experiences in the temple. Recently, I have been attending with my new friend, Patty Silver. She is the 2nd counselor in YWs and is an absolute delight. She is a widow and recently married my neighbor so she just lives down the street. She is a convert to the church was raised in less than desirable circumstances so I learn so much from her and her sweet spirit. She is a blessing in my life and an answer to prayers of many years. We go every Wednesday and I am grateful to have a partner.
Bria and Ada are now taking piano lessons. Sue Hardy is the best piano teacher on the planet. She is so patient and loving but firm. I wish I was required to take piano lessons as a child so my poor girls sorry you get that privilege. I believe you will thank me one day ha ha
The rest of the week was filled with gymnastics, homework and prep for the upcoming hunting expedition. Friday we had our ward fund raiser for the youth camps. We had a BBQ and had the youth bring a baked good and a service they would offer to the ward members. The ward members bid on the services and baked goods and we as a youth will power clean our garbage cans for a donation. It was a successful evening bringing in over $1,200. Not bad people.
Corby and I finalized a little more on the lot and house plans before the fund raiser. We discussed moving walls, adding garages, RV pads and so much more. Getting closer to final decision. We were able to walk through the exact floor plan we desired in a different subdivision and that helped my little visual brain so much. Its one thing on paper with dimensions all written out but to actually be in the room is another. I choose the later I am a visual gal. We are also getting final numbers put together so stay tuned, I will walk you through the process step by step as this is my families journal. I talk like others read this but in actuality I think it will only be read by my daughters once its printed.
Saturday I purchased tickets to listen to Hank Smith speak in Provo. I purchased 4 tickets so Malia brought Jamison and Madison. Hank is one of a kind. WOW! Such a powerful youth speaker. They fed us both spiritually and physically. His topic was Teen Matters. He asked the youth are you a front row teenager or a back row teenager. Do you create your life or do you let others create it. He shared so many powerful experiences and had the entire rooms full attention. I loved that 3 hours. While I was gone with Malia, Corby took Bria to Liane's birthday party and Ada stayed with Corby.
Later that evening, the 4 of us headed to Apline to my uncles retirement party. It was held in my cousins backyard. This is my uncle George, he is my mom's only living sibling and is 11.5 years younger than my mom. George is married to Gaye and they have 5 children, Jory, Cassie, Jamie, Mindy, and Mckay. Such great fond memories growing up with these cousins. The party was held at Jamie's house and holy cow it was a mansion. She has a house that feels like the state capital upon entrance. Marble floors, three full kitchens just so amazing. She has a gym in her basement. A gym like one that looks like a church gymnasium. It was so fun mingling with that side of the family and good job George on retirement. You are an amazing man with an amazing family.
Sunday I co-taught in YW's with Brooklyn and Mary. We taught about Fasting. It was a fantastic lesson and one that I think all present felt the spirit.
Our Institute invited the seniors to attend a fireside on Sunday and guess who was the speaker??? Elder Ballard of the quorum of the 12. Malia wanted to get good seats so she went an hour early.....only to find that an hour early got her seats just not in the chapel. So moral of the story is if a general authority is speaking, get there Saturday morning for a Sunday evening fireside. She said it was amazing and helped her with some future decisions. I wish I could have gone and listened to a prophets voice. I stayed home with Bria and Ada and our home teachers gave us a lesson and we enjoyed FHE by Corby.
Received a phone call from one of the yw moms this week and it was a little hard to grasp. I tell ya what serving the youth is a double edge sword. I love it! I love it so much but I could do without the parents. Whatever happened to giving people the benefit of the doubt. After a lengthy convo we did find a happy place so I will count that as a win.
Also, continue to be patient as I figure out how to upload photos. I figure it's best to get the words documented and then insert the photos later. So these are wordy but hey isn't that one of my traits.
I get my hair cut and highlighted every 6 and 12 weeks. I go to a lady named Ashley in Lehi. Its a drive I am not gonna lie but she is worth it. She gets me with what I want and she has become a dear friend over the years. She informed she is getting divorced after 14 years of marriage. It is sad but its sadder to see people be mistreated and taken advantage of more. I wish Ashley the best and have no doubts she will find someone to treat her the way she deserves to be treated.
Every other Monday I have class from 10:30-1:30 in South Jordan. Ann Washburn teaches it and wow I love her. She has helped me see things I have struggled with my whole life. She helps me see the issues and also offers suggestions to solve the issues. I am blessed blessed to be surrounded by individuals who are in creation mode and not victim mode. Hurray for goodness!
Ada has gymnastics every Monday and Bria has ballet. It is exciting to see my little girls growing up and developing talents. Ada still keeps telling me she likes dance better so we shall see how long our gymnastics world lasts. She is good, hands down very very good. The teachers after class keep moving her up levels. I don't care how fantastic she is though, balance is key and she is 8. She gets to be a kid and play and enjoy lots of variety and not spend hours upon hours in the studio. When she is older she can go back to competitive dance and I will be her biggest cheerleader.
After class I got the girls settle and then I spent the evening with some girlfriends. We have gotten together for over 18 years every month. Impressive I know! I love this group of ladies. We have endured a lot together and we get each other. One of my friends is going to be a grandma twice here in a few months. Can't wait to cuddle on those sweet bundles of pure joy. I think one of the things I love the most about my group of friends is we are all individuals. We accept each other even though we hold different religious beliefs and other differences.. Its a no judgement zone when we get together and its just down right a breath of fresh air I am not gonna lie. We opt for different fun places to eat at but this go around someone chose Red Robin. The company was good ha ha.
Tuesdays are Bria's art days. She loves her class and is making friends. She talks nonstop about the teacher and I can't get enough of her smile when she comes out of class.
A goal I have had for many years is to attend the temple weekly, ambitious I know, but oh so necessary for my soul. I have an abundance of family names from my mother and sister-in-law Jodi so I feel an urgency and responsibility to provide them with these sacred saving ordinances. I have had many spiritual experiences in the temple. Recently, I have been attending with my new friend, Patty Silver. She is the 2nd counselor in YWs and is an absolute delight. She is a widow and recently married my neighbor so she just lives down the street. She is a convert to the church was raised in less than desirable circumstances so I learn so much from her and her sweet spirit. She is a blessing in my life and an answer to prayers of many years. We go every Wednesday and I am grateful to have a partner.
Bria and Ada are now taking piano lessons. Sue Hardy is the best piano teacher on the planet. She is so patient and loving but firm. I wish I was required to take piano lessons as a child so my poor girls sorry you get that privilege. I believe you will thank me one day ha ha
The rest of the week was filled with gymnastics, homework and prep for the upcoming hunting expedition. Friday we had our ward fund raiser for the youth camps. We had a BBQ and had the youth bring a baked good and a service they would offer to the ward members. The ward members bid on the services and baked goods and we as a youth will power clean our garbage cans for a donation. It was a successful evening bringing in over $1,200. Not bad people.
Corby and I finalized a little more on the lot and house plans before the fund raiser. We discussed moving walls, adding garages, RV pads and so much more. Getting closer to final decision. We were able to walk through the exact floor plan we desired in a different subdivision and that helped my little visual brain so much. Its one thing on paper with dimensions all written out but to actually be in the room is another. I choose the later I am a visual gal. We are also getting final numbers put together so stay tuned, I will walk you through the process step by step as this is my families journal. I talk like others read this but in actuality I think it will only be read by my daughters once its printed.
Saturday I purchased tickets to listen to Hank Smith speak in Provo. I purchased 4 tickets so Malia brought Jamison and Madison. Hank is one of a kind. WOW! Such a powerful youth speaker. They fed us both spiritually and physically. His topic was Teen Matters. He asked the youth are you a front row teenager or a back row teenager. Do you create your life or do you let others create it. He shared so many powerful experiences and had the entire rooms full attention. I loved that 3 hours. While I was gone with Malia, Corby took Bria to Liane's birthday party and Ada stayed with Corby.
Later that evening, the 4 of us headed to Apline to my uncles retirement party. It was held in my cousins backyard. This is my uncle George, he is my mom's only living sibling and is 11.5 years younger than my mom. George is married to Gaye and they have 5 children, Jory, Cassie, Jamie, Mindy, and Mckay. Such great fond memories growing up with these cousins. The party was held at Jamie's house and holy cow it was a mansion. She has a house that feels like the state capital upon entrance. Marble floors, three full kitchens just so amazing. She has a gym in her basement. A gym like one that looks like a church gymnasium. It was so fun mingling with that side of the family and good job George on retirement. You are an amazing man with an amazing family.
Sunday I co-taught in YW's with Brooklyn and Mary. We taught about Fasting. It was a fantastic lesson and one that I think all present felt the spirit.
Our Institute invited the seniors to attend a fireside on Sunday and guess who was the speaker??? Elder Ballard of the quorum of the 12. Malia wanted to get good seats so she went an hour early.....only to find that an hour early got her seats just not in the chapel. So moral of the story is if a general authority is speaking, get there Saturday morning for a Sunday evening fireside. She said it was amazing and helped her with some future decisions. I wish I could have gone and listened to a prophets voice. I stayed home with Bria and Ada and our home teachers gave us a lesson and we enjoyed FHE by Corby.
Received a phone call from one of the yw moms this week and it was a little hard to grasp. I tell ya what serving the youth is a double edge sword. I love it! I love it so much but I could do without the parents. Whatever happened to giving people the benefit of the doubt. After a lengthy convo we did find a happy place so I will count that as a win.
Also, continue to be patient as I figure out how to upload photos. I figure it's best to get the words documented and then insert the photos later. So these are wordy but hey isn't that one of my traits.
Breeta's Golden Birthday
There is no possible way my little 7#14oz baby is now double digits. Nope, I am in denial and as long as there is denial it doesn't exist. Stay little my sweet sweet miracle baby who I prayed for and longed for for years. You are well worth the wait Miss Bria Paige!!!
Traditions are strong in this household. Many years ago I thought hanging crepe paper as streamers in the birthday girl's bedroom doorway complete with balloons would be fun. Well 10 years later we are still going strong. Bria requests the color and style now ha ha. Anything you want my sweet angel girl, I love celebrating you sweet princess.
As the birthday girl wishes the birthday girl gets all day long. Bria wanted crepes for breakfast and to eat at Denny's for lunch and then Pizza Pie Cafe for dinner, holy carbs girl haha
Grandma Hansen came down for other obligations and stopped by to spend a little time with Miss Breeta. We all headed to Denny's and had a terrible experience. Not to be negative just to be real I like recording all aspects of our life. Ok so first off you are thinking well you are at Denny's what were you expecting and I totally agree but listen up you'll be amazed at our experience. So Bria's bday fell on a Sunday so we did the "go out" part on Saturday so Bria was denied being sung to and having her bday acknowledged because it wasn't her actual day.....boo for that! What grandma and myself ordered didn't come with what was promised and additional items were tacked on our ordered without explaining they weren't included. Ada asked for chicken and apples and the waitress insisted she order fries as well then brought out grapes instead of apples claiming the apples were rotten, tasty. Ada did not want the grapes so we exchanged the grapes for gold fish crackers and inside the bowl was waded up garbage........I know right! Once we saw the garbage and the fact that more than half of our meals were incorrect and also when we ordered water instead of pricey drinks we were told "Well, won't this be a fun table" I told the waitress that this was an unacceptable experience. She did not offer to reduce our bill or make any accommodations so we gave a small tip and headed out of there. I did call the general manager who promptly returned my voicemail and did give us a gift card to return. Jury is out if we will. So gross on so many levels. But we did not let that take our birthday spirited celebrations out. We headed to swig for a sugar cookie and dance drink. I really missed Sierra at this point as Swig is a favorite for Sierra. Oh how missions are bittersweet!!
After our cookie and drink, Grandma took Bria to the District to do some window shopping just the two of them. While they spent time together Corby, myself, Teesh, James and Ada all went to finalize more of our future house plans. We aren't telling many people about this endeavor for obvious reasons. There are still so many phases that much take place so for now the info is on the down low and Bria likes to talk so she got left out of the loop this go around. We did decide the lot plot and met with another neighbor who we really liked. She let us walk through her house and she told us what upgrades she would do and not do after being through the process just a year ago. Pinch me, this is just so exciting.
After shopping, all parties and Malia now joined us, met up at Pizza Pie Cafe for all you can eat pizza dessert pizza pasta and salad. Little Breeta you have amazing taste. The BYU vs UTAH game was on that evening so Malia went to friends and Teesh left with James to his house to all watch the game. While grandma, Corby, Bria, Ada, and myself made a mad dash across the street to Macey's for some case lot shopping. We were long overdue with case lot shopping so it was a double cart experience and we loaded our car trunk to the brim. Boy does it feel good to have my storage back up especially with all the natural disasters that keep occurring.
Sunday, Hollie, Clark, Samie, Gage and James plus our family all enjoyed a dinner in Bria's honor. She wanted orange chicken with white rice and sugar snap peas. Your wish is my command girlie. We held the spanking machine even though Bria kept insisting she didn't really want it but kept bringing it up so we "forced" her to go through. I love little kids. They are so fun.
Bria I want you to know I am so proud of you. You hold the kindest heart and are so sensitive to others. We will walk by homeless people and you are always asking how we can serve them. You are a math wizard and love to read. I am so lucky you are mine forever. You love to ride your bike, jump on the tramp, and plan things that are so far in advance. You are detailed about the small things in life and your ability to remember details from previous conversations blows my mind. If Bria corrects me I know she is right because she hasn't been wrong yet. You are an older spirit and so mature and respectful. You love to play with Shopkins and Grossery Gang people. I love listening to your imagination as you play. You are my America's Got Talent buddy. I look forward to watch it with you each week. I love you durla. I am so proud of you. I know you will get what you want because you have the drive and determination to make anything happen in your life.
Happy Happy Birthday Bria Paige Hansen
Traditions are strong in this household. Many years ago I thought hanging crepe paper as streamers in the birthday girl's bedroom doorway complete with balloons would be fun. Well 10 years later we are still going strong. Bria requests the color and style now ha ha. Anything you want my sweet angel girl, I love celebrating you sweet princess.
As the birthday girl wishes the birthday girl gets all day long. Bria wanted crepes for breakfast and to eat at Denny's for lunch and then Pizza Pie Cafe for dinner, holy carbs girl haha
Grandma Hansen came down for other obligations and stopped by to spend a little time with Miss Breeta. We all headed to Denny's and had a terrible experience. Not to be negative just to be real I like recording all aspects of our life. Ok so first off you are thinking well you are at Denny's what were you expecting and I totally agree but listen up you'll be amazed at our experience. So Bria's bday fell on a Sunday so we did the "go out" part on Saturday so Bria was denied being sung to and having her bday acknowledged because it wasn't her actual day.....boo for that! What grandma and myself ordered didn't come with what was promised and additional items were tacked on our ordered without explaining they weren't included. Ada asked for chicken and apples and the waitress insisted she order fries as well then brought out grapes instead of apples claiming the apples were rotten, tasty. Ada did not want the grapes so we exchanged the grapes for gold fish crackers and inside the bowl was waded up garbage........I know right! Once we saw the garbage and the fact that more than half of our meals were incorrect and also when we ordered water instead of pricey drinks we were told "Well, won't this be a fun table" I told the waitress that this was an unacceptable experience. She did not offer to reduce our bill or make any accommodations so we gave a small tip and headed out of there. I did call the general manager who promptly returned my voicemail and did give us a gift card to return. Jury is out if we will. So gross on so many levels. But we did not let that take our birthday spirited celebrations out. We headed to swig for a sugar cookie and dance drink. I really missed Sierra at this point as Swig is a favorite for Sierra. Oh how missions are bittersweet!!
After our cookie and drink, Grandma took Bria to the District to do some window shopping just the two of them. While they spent time together Corby, myself, Teesh, James and Ada all went to finalize more of our future house plans. We aren't telling many people about this endeavor for obvious reasons. There are still so many phases that much take place so for now the info is on the down low and Bria likes to talk so she got left out of the loop this go around. We did decide the lot plot and met with another neighbor who we really liked. She let us walk through her house and she told us what upgrades she would do and not do after being through the process just a year ago. Pinch me, this is just so exciting.
After shopping, all parties and Malia now joined us, met up at Pizza Pie Cafe for all you can eat pizza dessert pizza pasta and salad. Little Breeta you have amazing taste. The BYU vs UTAH game was on that evening so Malia went to friends and Teesh left with James to his house to all watch the game. While grandma, Corby, Bria, Ada, and myself made a mad dash across the street to Macey's for some case lot shopping. We were long overdue with case lot shopping so it was a double cart experience and we loaded our car trunk to the brim. Boy does it feel good to have my storage back up especially with all the natural disasters that keep occurring.
Sunday, Hollie, Clark, Samie, Gage and James plus our family all enjoyed a dinner in Bria's honor. She wanted orange chicken with white rice and sugar snap peas. Your wish is my command girlie. We held the spanking machine even though Bria kept insisting she didn't really want it but kept bringing it up so we "forced" her to go through. I love little kids. They are so fun.
Bria I want you to know I am so proud of you. You hold the kindest heart and are so sensitive to others. We will walk by homeless people and you are always asking how we can serve them. You are a math wizard and love to read. I am so lucky you are mine forever. You love to ride your bike, jump on the tramp, and plan things that are so far in advance. You are detailed about the small things in life and your ability to remember details from previous conversations blows my mind. If Bria corrects me I know she is right because she hasn't been wrong yet. You are an older spirit and so mature and respectful. You love to play with Shopkins and Grossery Gang people. I love listening to your imagination as you play. You are my America's Got Talent buddy. I look forward to watch it with you each week. I love you durla. I am so proud of you. I know you will get what you want because you have the drive and determination to make anything happen in your life.
Happy Happy Birthday Bria Paige Hansen
Thursday, September 14, 2017
Labor Day
Wow, life is just a whirl wind of fun and crazy and time flies by so quickly. I have decided to just begin in the present and then play catch up of the highlights of the last year. So many wonderful things have happened this past year and I want our family records to hold those memories.
I have decided that the best approach for my records is a week glance and special highlight posts for really specific memories. So this will turn into more of a journal at a week glance. This feels right to me.
Labor Day weekend we reserved a camp spot at the Landmark RV. It was a beautiful weekend. We didn't arrive to our destination until Friday evening pretty late but that's one of the perks of owning a trailer. Set is already done!
Saturday morning the girls swam and enjoyed the beautiful morning while I read my book and enjoyed listening to their laughter. Nothing is sweeter than fresh air and children's giggles. A tradition we have in our family is that each member gets to choose a meal we eat each week. It's seriously one of the best things I have come up. I love to cook, but ideas are sometimes a struggle so if I have 7 family members and there are 7 days in a week problem solved and when on vacation its extra helpful because now I have a full kitchen to utilize while camping. Win Win
We eat like a king and queens and sleep like ones too. Seriously air conditioning and heat and flushing toilets, perfection I tell ya.
Ada was absolutely dying to drive a mini van so we found a car dealership and brought that dream to reality. She begs daily for us to purchase a mini van, a Chinese minivan(Toyota Sienna)
Malia, Jamie, and Teesh all drove up separately on different days to spend sometime with us. We played games, met our neighbors and enjoyed the company of Hollie and Clark for a few hours. I love being with those who I care for. Hollie taught us a new game called Lucky 7. She has a friend who is constantly finding games that we absolutely love. Card games are the bomb diggity bomb.
I mentioned we met our neighbor, Lara. She is a widow and is living out the dreams her and her husband had been planning. She chose to not have children and now says she is so grateful because she would be raising them alone since her husband passed on unexpectantly and at a relatively young age. She has a yellow camper, yellow chairs, a yellow rug and just basically everything you could desire in the color yellow. The girls all mentioned how Grandma Hansen would love that set up. She shared a meal with us and played games and allowed the girls to walk her little Roxy with her. It was fun to discuss our beliefs in a higher power.
We cut our camping short and came home Sunday rather than stay through Monday. We had some goals to accomplish Monday and we were far too excited to put it off another week.
Monday was full of finishing projects and prep for upcoming week. Lots and lots of exciting things were lying ahead of us. We finished the girls rain gutter regatta boats and then went house shopping. I will leave you in suspense for now but know that dreams do come true. Dreams of 10+ years peeps is becoming a reality. I am stoked!!!
The girls both participated in the regatta on Tuesday evening and both made it to the final rounds. They worked hard and with help from Uncle Ron (an expert in creating fast boats) they were both finalist. Ha ha. It was such a fun evening seeing all the kids having fun.
Bria signed up for an Art Class at our rec center. She is taking it with a neighbor girl who recently moved in. It's fun to see Bria excel in her talents. She is loving this class and learning so much.
Wednesday, I headed down to American Fork to learn more about macro counting at CoreLife Eatery by Trainer Lindsey. This is an area that I want to implement in my life forever. It resonates with me deeply and is truly the answer to me living in my fullest highest potential. I will share more as I see fit. After the class I headed to Provo to visit with Becky, McKay's grandma. Becky is one of those people who you feel better after being around her. She is so funny. She is a breath of fresh air. She has a similar personality to my sister LaraLee. She gave me an update about McKay's mission and his family. It was a super fun afternoon. I needed it.
Thursday was just crazy awesome. I got the kids off to school and then prepared to be gone for the remainder of the day......Logan here I come.
I rode up with my friend Anna Smith who lives in Holladay. We met through some classes we both took through Kirk Duncan. I had a Reiki appointment with Mindi and Anna did some personal things. If you don't know what Reiki is look it up, life changing. Mindi is a master at her trade and I feel so grateful our paths crossed about a year ago. We have a deep connection. Mindi helped me process the hang ups I am experiencing with the forward momentum of our future home. It was a power packed day.
At 6pm, class with Kristen Bowen, Living the Good Life Naturally, began. I love this group of ladies I get to associate with. We have weekly zoom calls every Friday and I can honestly say its a highlight of my week, second to Missionary Monday of course. Kristen teaches me how to heal your body with superfoods and good solid supplements. I drink coconut water and molasses for potassium, sole for sodium and I soak multiple times a week for Magnesium. I know this kind of stuff is probably boring but I find it fascinating and its my passion to feed my body with the most healthy foods possible. I believe with all I possess that God created our bodies to function on food and the processed stuff that is available is not food. It's a life mission to teach others about the products that are commonly used that don't serve you. I know most don't care, they take the approach I feel great why do anything different. Well peeps, your food choices will create your future so for today things might feel great but over time hydrogenated oils and food dyes and man made vitamin D and so much more will build up inside you and issues will arise. Ok, stepping down from my soapbox.
Our class was supposed to go 6-9 but it went until 10:30 and I did not complain. Anna and I could not stop talking the entire hour and a half ride home. I sure do appreciate Anna!
While I was in class, Jamie picked the girls up and stayed with them until Corby got home and then Corby took Ada to gymnastics and did the evening routine. Lucky I am to have a team partner in Corby.
Friday, we went birthday shopping for our Breeta girl after school. She wanted to choose her gift so I happily obliged. Off we went to Toys R Us and grabbed a stuffed elephant for Kaylee and Bria chose her gifts. It was fun to just let her explore. After Kaylee's Tea Party, we headed to Herriman for the Futurity First Annual BBQ. Texas Roadhouse catered it and it was such a beautiful evening. Relaxing and meeting the newbies that have joined Corby's team. Oh here's where I will insert that Corby was just given the award of Top Producing Office of the entire company. I am not sure if you understand what a great honor this is. It represents the hard work Corby has put in the last few years. So proud of Corby and his valiant efforts.
I have decided that the best approach for my records is a week glance and special highlight posts for really specific memories. So this will turn into more of a journal at a week glance. This feels right to me.
Labor Day weekend we reserved a camp spot at the Landmark RV. It was a beautiful weekend. We didn't arrive to our destination until Friday evening pretty late but that's one of the perks of owning a trailer. Set is already done!
Saturday morning the girls swam and enjoyed the beautiful morning while I read my book and enjoyed listening to their laughter. Nothing is sweeter than fresh air and children's giggles. A tradition we have in our family is that each member gets to choose a meal we eat each week. It's seriously one of the best things I have come up. I love to cook, but ideas are sometimes a struggle so if I have 7 family members and there are 7 days in a week problem solved and when on vacation its extra helpful because now I have a full kitchen to utilize while camping. Win Win
We eat like a king and queens and sleep like ones too. Seriously air conditioning and heat and flushing toilets, perfection I tell ya.
Ada was absolutely dying to drive a mini van so we found a car dealership and brought that dream to reality. She begs daily for us to purchase a mini van, a Chinese minivan(Toyota Sienna)
Malia, Jamie, and Teesh all drove up separately on different days to spend sometime with us. We played games, met our neighbors and enjoyed the company of Hollie and Clark for a few hours. I love being with those who I care for. Hollie taught us a new game called Lucky 7. She has a friend who is constantly finding games that we absolutely love. Card games are the bomb diggity bomb.
I mentioned we met our neighbor, Lara. She is a widow and is living out the dreams her and her husband had been planning. She chose to not have children and now says she is so grateful because she would be raising them alone since her husband passed on unexpectantly and at a relatively young age. She has a yellow camper, yellow chairs, a yellow rug and just basically everything you could desire in the color yellow. The girls all mentioned how Grandma Hansen would love that set up. She shared a meal with us and played games and allowed the girls to walk her little Roxy with her. It was fun to discuss our beliefs in a higher power.
We cut our camping short and came home Sunday rather than stay through Monday. We had some goals to accomplish Monday and we were far too excited to put it off another week.
Monday was full of finishing projects and prep for upcoming week. Lots and lots of exciting things were lying ahead of us. We finished the girls rain gutter regatta boats and then went house shopping. I will leave you in suspense for now but know that dreams do come true. Dreams of 10+ years peeps is becoming a reality. I am stoked!!!
The girls both participated in the regatta on Tuesday evening and both made it to the final rounds. They worked hard and with help from Uncle Ron (an expert in creating fast boats) they were both finalist. Ha ha. It was such a fun evening seeing all the kids having fun.
Bria signed up for an Art Class at our rec center. She is taking it with a neighbor girl who recently moved in. It's fun to see Bria excel in her talents. She is loving this class and learning so much.
Wednesday, I headed down to American Fork to learn more about macro counting at CoreLife Eatery by Trainer Lindsey. This is an area that I want to implement in my life forever. It resonates with me deeply and is truly the answer to me living in my fullest highest potential. I will share more as I see fit. After the class I headed to Provo to visit with Becky, McKay's grandma. Becky is one of those people who you feel better after being around her. She is so funny. She is a breath of fresh air. She has a similar personality to my sister LaraLee. She gave me an update about McKay's mission and his family. It was a super fun afternoon. I needed it.
Thursday was just crazy awesome. I got the kids off to school and then prepared to be gone for the remainder of the day......Logan here I come.
I rode up with my friend Anna Smith who lives in Holladay. We met through some classes we both took through Kirk Duncan. I had a Reiki appointment with Mindi and Anna did some personal things. If you don't know what Reiki is look it up, life changing. Mindi is a master at her trade and I feel so grateful our paths crossed about a year ago. We have a deep connection. Mindi helped me process the hang ups I am experiencing with the forward momentum of our future home. It was a power packed day.
At 6pm, class with Kristen Bowen, Living the Good Life Naturally, began. I love this group of ladies I get to associate with. We have weekly zoom calls every Friday and I can honestly say its a highlight of my week, second to Missionary Monday of course. Kristen teaches me how to heal your body with superfoods and good solid supplements. I drink coconut water and molasses for potassium, sole for sodium and I soak multiple times a week for Magnesium. I know this kind of stuff is probably boring but I find it fascinating and its my passion to feed my body with the most healthy foods possible. I believe with all I possess that God created our bodies to function on food and the processed stuff that is available is not food. It's a life mission to teach others about the products that are commonly used that don't serve you. I know most don't care, they take the approach I feel great why do anything different. Well peeps, your food choices will create your future so for today things might feel great but over time hydrogenated oils and food dyes and man made vitamin D and so much more will build up inside you and issues will arise. Ok, stepping down from my soapbox.
Our class was supposed to go 6-9 but it went until 10:30 and I did not complain. Anna and I could not stop talking the entire hour and a half ride home. I sure do appreciate Anna!
While I was in class, Jamie picked the girls up and stayed with them until Corby got home and then Corby took Ada to gymnastics and did the evening routine. Lucky I am to have a team partner in Corby.
Friday, we went birthday shopping for our Breeta girl after school. She wanted to choose her gift so I happily obliged. Off we went to Toys R Us and grabbed a stuffed elephant for Kaylee and Bria chose her gifts. It was fun to just let her explore. After Kaylee's Tea Party, we headed to Herriman for the Futurity First Annual BBQ. Texas Roadhouse catered it and it was such a beautiful evening. Relaxing and meeting the newbies that have joined Corby's team. Oh here's where I will insert that Corby was just given the award of Top Producing Office of the entire company. I am not sure if you understand what a great honor this is. It represents the hard work Corby has put in the last few years. So proud of Corby and his valiant efforts.
Thursday, September 7, 2017
Is anyone out there?
Hello! I feel like an introduction is appropriate at this point ha ha. Wow, its been longer than a year since my last post. Time flies when you are having fun and raising teenagers and youngins..
I switched from HP to Mac and I love my new computer but the learning curve has kept me on my toes. I still haven't figured it all out with photos but I have so many thoughts swarming in my noggin that I needed to just write and will add photos later. Thank goodness for classes to teach an old dog new tricks.
So school just started and that's been a whirl wind.
A little recap of where we are in our family.
Teesh just moved to Logan. She works from home so she has the luxury to live anywhere. Logan has always felt right to her. She has 3 roommates who all know each other from their missions and are all so great. Super encouraging with Teesh and include her in their activities. It's a win all around. My brother Brad and his family are close and have been a great source of comfort for her. Gotta love it when you have people you can count on and sometimes put my daughter's needs above theirs. Thankful for Brad and Teresa beyond words.
Sierra is serving a mission in Chile Concepcion South. She attended the Mexico MTC for 6 weeks July 4th. She currently has been serving in Chile for almost a month. Crazy that its been over 2 months since I gave her a hug. I miss her terribly but she is so happy and doing what she wants and it's how I want things to be. I didn't have children intending they would be around my whole life. My greatest desire is to train and teach them to be competent kind adults who go after their dreams and I will be a cheerleader on the sidelines. Go Team Hansen. Girls!! Sierra Mexico MTC companion is from St. George and was a huge blessing. She said they became instant BFF's and have helped and encouraged each other from day one. It was a tearful event to be separated once they arrived in Chile. Sarah's mom has reached out to me and we chat often. Love good people in my life. Sierra has a good friend named McKay who is serving in Equador right now. It was fun to see them prepare for their missions together and who knows where this will end in 2 years. If my vote counts I am hoping it ends in wedding bells, we shall see!
Malia is a bit of a blur(as seniors typically are) She is president of Dance Company. She is on Seminary Council. She is on our City Council. She works at our local rec center and she is Laurel President. She is up and out of here by 5:40 every morning has dance practice before and after school and gets home around 3:45 with work from 4-10. Now do you see the blur comment. I committed to make breakfast for my girls each school morning, so yes I am up at the crack of dawn and I love it. Malia is my ray of sunshine. She is so level headed and just a fun person. I love our time together even as limited as it is. Malia is deciding on universities and her future. She plans to serve a mission and is currently leaning towards attending BYU. A lot will be decided when scholarships start being offered. BYU has always been her goal. She has exceptional taste in good friends. Jameson is her main squeeze. She has been an instrumental influence for Jamie. He doesn't come from an active family and since they have become friends Jamie does baptisms for the dead weekly and they study the scriptures nightly through Face time.
Bria is our 4th grader. She got Ms. Sinca has a teacher. Ms. Sinca is from Romania and is a perfect fit for our Breeta. She is structured and runs a very organized classroom, perfect storm for Miss Bria to learn in. Bria attends Navigator Pointe Academy and says being in a 5.5 math class is not her favorite ha ha. Our school is a level base learning school and so if you are in 4th grade but are capable in doing mid to end of year 5th grade level work you'll be assigned to the more advanced class. Just one of the many reasons why NPA has my heart and always will.
Bria loves tennis and is taking an Art class. She is also in piano and is interested in drama. Now is the season for exploring little angel so lets do it.
Ada Rae is our 2nd grader. She has Mrs. Corbett(her kindergarten teacher) We made the decision to have Ada repeat first grate. Best. Decision. Ever. for our little munchkin. She is thriving and her confidence is sky high. She has a new friend daily and is our little social butterfly. She was competitively dancing the last two years and I believe in balance so we pulled that plug until she is a bit older. She has the talent and ability to go far in that arena but for now we will explore new things for a bit. She is currently enrolled in Epic Gymnastics. She keeps getting moved up to another level each class. I knew this would be the case because that little rubber band can learn and master a skill in a snap of a finger. She is so fun to watch. She is beginning piano this year and just entered activity days and loves it. She is walking on cloud nine this past week as her leader drives a mini van and Ada wants a mini van more than I want carbs. Bucket list item checked off, rode in a mini van ha ha.
Corby is rocking the position as manager of Futurity First. He was just told his office is the #1producing office in the entire company. It is so fun to see him excel in what he loves. We are the proud owners of a 2014 Lexus, a 2017 Silverado, and a 2012 31' camper trailer. You could say this was the year of upgrades ha ha. Corby serves in the Stake Sunday school presidency and enjoys the low key responsibilities it offers. He was teaching Gospel Doctrine and would count that as one of his favorite callings and was sad to be released.
and then there's me, little old me. I am the carpool pro, chef of my pantry, macro counting animal, and living the life of my dreams ha ha. The day to day is tough I am not going to sugar coat it. Some days I really want to go back to bed and pretend I have no schedule. Our schedule is C~R~A~Z~Y!!!!!! It's a love hate relationship for sure. Its a phase they say, you'll miss it when it's gone they say, and I am saying oh yea, try me ha ha. No, I am grateful I get to be home with my girlies and volunteer in their classes and be here for that 15 minutes to catch up with Malia and my weekly interaction with Sierra and my daily snapchats with Teesh and texting. Would not trade it for the world just sometimes I get a little tired you know..
I have been serving as Young Women's President for over 3 years and I love it. It is so fulfilling and time consuming but hey I made a covenant to serve so I might as well serve where I feel the most love.
So that's a recap. I will be better about updating and I will get caught up, that's a promise. So stay
tuned and get ready to have your mind blown with all the excitement I will soon be sharing.
I switched from HP to Mac and I love my new computer but the learning curve has kept me on my toes. I still haven't figured it all out with photos but I have so many thoughts swarming in my noggin that I needed to just write and will add photos later. Thank goodness for classes to teach an old dog new tricks.
So school just started and that's been a whirl wind.
A little recap of where we are in our family.
Teesh just moved to Logan. She works from home so she has the luxury to live anywhere. Logan has always felt right to her. She has 3 roommates who all know each other from their missions and are all so great. Super encouraging with Teesh and include her in their activities. It's a win all around. My brother Brad and his family are close and have been a great source of comfort for her. Gotta love it when you have people you can count on and sometimes put my daughter's needs above theirs. Thankful for Brad and Teresa beyond words.
Sierra is serving a mission in Chile Concepcion South. She attended the Mexico MTC for 6 weeks July 4th. She currently has been serving in Chile for almost a month. Crazy that its been over 2 months since I gave her a hug. I miss her terribly but she is so happy and doing what she wants and it's how I want things to be. I didn't have children intending they would be around my whole life. My greatest desire is to train and teach them to be competent kind adults who go after their dreams and I will be a cheerleader on the sidelines. Go Team Hansen. Girls!! Sierra Mexico MTC companion is from St. George and was a huge blessing. She said they became instant BFF's and have helped and encouraged each other from day one. It was a tearful event to be separated once they arrived in Chile. Sarah's mom has reached out to me and we chat often. Love good people in my life. Sierra has a good friend named McKay who is serving in Equador right now. It was fun to see them prepare for their missions together and who knows where this will end in 2 years. If my vote counts I am hoping it ends in wedding bells, we shall see!
Malia is a bit of a blur(as seniors typically are) She is president of Dance Company. She is on Seminary Council. She is on our City Council. She works at our local rec center and she is Laurel President. She is up and out of here by 5:40 every morning has dance practice before and after school and gets home around 3:45 with work from 4-10. Now do you see the blur comment. I committed to make breakfast for my girls each school morning, so yes I am up at the crack of dawn and I love it. Malia is my ray of sunshine. She is so level headed and just a fun person. I love our time together even as limited as it is. Malia is deciding on universities and her future. She plans to serve a mission and is currently leaning towards attending BYU. A lot will be decided when scholarships start being offered. BYU has always been her goal. She has exceptional taste in good friends. Jameson is her main squeeze. She has been an instrumental influence for Jamie. He doesn't come from an active family and since they have become friends Jamie does baptisms for the dead weekly and they study the scriptures nightly through Face time.
Bria is our 4th grader. She got Ms. Sinca has a teacher. Ms. Sinca is from Romania and is a perfect fit for our Breeta. She is structured and runs a very organized classroom, perfect storm for Miss Bria to learn in. Bria attends Navigator Pointe Academy and says being in a 5.5 math class is not her favorite ha ha. Our school is a level base learning school and so if you are in 4th grade but are capable in doing mid to end of year 5th grade level work you'll be assigned to the more advanced class. Just one of the many reasons why NPA has my heart and always will.
Bria loves tennis and is taking an Art class. She is also in piano and is interested in drama. Now is the season for exploring little angel so lets do it.
Ada Rae is our 2nd grader. She has Mrs. Corbett(her kindergarten teacher) We made the decision to have Ada repeat first grate. Best. Decision. Ever. for our little munchkin. She is thriving and her confidence is sky high. She has a new friend daily and is our little social butterfly. She was competitively dancing the last two years and I believe in balance so we pulled that plug until she is a bit older. She has the talent and ability to go far in that arena but for now we will explore new things for a bit. She is currently enrolled in Epic Gymnastics. She keeps getting moved up to another level each class. I knew this would be the case because that little rubber band can learn and master a skill in a snap of a finger. She is so fun to watch. She is beginning piano this year and just entered activity days and loves it. She is walking on cloud nine this past week as her leader drives a mini van and Ada wants a mini van more than I want carbs. Bucket list item checked off, rode in a mini van ha ha.
Corby is rocking the position as manager of Futurity First. He was just told his office is the #1producing office in the entire company. It is so fun to see him excel in what he loves. We are the proud owners of a 2014 Lexus, a 2017 Silverado, and a 2012 31' camper trailer. You could say this was the year of upgrades ha ha. Corby serves in the Stake Sunday school presidency and enjoys the low key responsibilities it offers. He was teaching Gospel Doctrine and would count that as one of his favorite callings and was sad to be released.
and then there's me, little old me. I am the carpool pro, chef of my pantry, macro counting animal, and living the life of my dreams ha ha. The day to day is tough I am not going to sugar coat it. Some days I really want to go back to bed and pretend I have no schedule. Our schedule is C~R~A~Z~Y!!!!!! It's a love hate relationship for sure. Its a phase they say, you'll miss it when it's gone they say, and I am saying oh yea, try me ha ha. No, I am grateful I get to be home with my girlies and volunteer in their classes and be here for that 15 minutes to catch up with Malia and my weekly interaction with Sierra and my daily snapchats with Teesh and texting. Would not trade it for the world just sometimes I get a little tired you know..
I have been serving as Young Women's President for over 3 years and I love it. It is so fulfilling and time consuming but hey I made a covenant to serve so I might as well serve where I feel the most love.
So that's a recap. I will be better about updating and I will get caught up, that's a promise. So stay
tuned and get ready to have your mind blown with all the excitement I will soon be sharing.
Saturday, July 1, 2017
Ada gets Baptized
Ada Rae
You make my heart so happy...you made a wonderful decision to follow after our Savior and become the newest member of his church. I must tell you a few things sweetie. Stay true to yourself and the gospel. Sometimes the church gets run by tradition and culture. Stay in with both feet and lets make a change from the inside out OK? I know you are scratching your head in confusion but as you read this later in life you'll understand. Having a belief in a higher power will allow you to be unstoppable. The knowledge you have a Savior and the he performed the Atonement will give you hope.
Heres to celebrating you my angel fruit cake...
Grandma Hansen, DeLayne, Jodi and children, Troy and Tanya and children, Ron and VaLynn and boys, Hollie, Clark, and children and of course your sisters and parents were there. Good Job little one!! We all love you very much.
Twins!!!
Sunday, April 16, 2017
Sierra Jane meets McKay
I am not sure this is the best thing to be doing right now. The tears won't stop flowing. I miss this girl so much. She is so amazing and I miss her laugh and spunkiness. Man these missions are all around hard. I know its worth it but goodness it's hard. Ok. I've blown my nose and composed myself for a minute. Lets get these posted.
This is McKay. He is from a lot of places but his most current home town is Mapleton, Utah. He is a soccer player. He was offered to play professional but knew a mission was his top priority so played for UVU while he prepared for his mission. Funny story how Sierra and McKay met. Sierra was headed to the gym to workout and McKay was going to Institute and he rear ended her close to campus. I was visiting teaching and my phone kept ringing and ringing so I finally answer it and I hear Sierra, who is crying, "Mom, I've been in a car accident and it's really bad" I called Corby and told him to get girls ready because we are headed to Provo. I filled Corby in on the details while he drove down and would speak on and off to Sierra making sure she was ok while we drove the 45 minute commute. Once we arrived and I could see everyone was ok I took a deep breath. McKay hit Sierra and she hit the car in front of her so Sierra was crunched front end and back end. We knew her Honda would be totaled. That car was on it's last leg anyway. So grateful that no one was seriously injured. We took Sierra back to her apartment and helped her find a chiropractor as her neck was already bugging her. It was so cute because all night Sierra would say, "Mom, Mckay is so cute! At this time we didn't know how old he was. We assumed he was a returned missionary ha ha quite the surprise to learn he was 17. McKay was such a gentlemen. He called me and said " Sister Hansen, I hit your daughter and I take full responsibility for the accident. I looked down for a minute and I hit her" I will make it right for your family. What 17 year old talks and take responsibility like that. I was blown away. While we were at Sierra apartment looking at replacement cars he kept texting Sierra saying how sorry he was and if he could make it up to her he would. Sierra is telling me mom I want to go out on a date with him. So I said next time he asks what he can do to make it up say you can take me to dinner. So she did. He took a long time to reply like 15 minutes and Sierra is like mom you scared him away I said no he is pooping his pants right now because he is so excited to ask you out. Long story short obviously they went out and haven't been separated since. I love seeing Sierra so happy and so well taken care of. McKay is one of a kind. In February, McKay turned 18 and put his mission papers in a few short weeks later. He got called to serve in the El Salvador Mission and left in May. Sierra got her call to Chile Concepcion South and left in July. Sierra will come home in January and McKay in May and hopefully wedding bells in August.
These photos were taken around Easter time
Girls love being taught by McKay. He is an exceptional soccer player like for real he is so good. He is so patient teaching the girls
Before Sierra opened her call she invited her grandparents to be there. As you can see Grandma Hansen made the journey down
Chile Concepcion South...Leaving July 4th from Salt Lake Airport to the Mexico MTC
Get the tissues ready, this momma isn't ready for another goodbye. Missions are gut wrenching. Yes I am grateful my girls have the desire to serve but that doesn't make it easier. Good bye is hard and it doesn't get easier the more you send. 18 months isn't that long is it?
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